Significance of Lighting Erev Shabbat Candles

The act of lighting Shabbat candles is deeply symbolic and carries rich spiritual significance in Judaism.  Here are some of the central ideas behind this ritual:  


1.  Bringing the Light into the Home

  • Peace and Harmony (Shalom Bayit)

The Shabbat candles are said to bring light, both literally and metaphorically, into the home.  They dispel phyisical darkness and symbolize the emotional and spiritual peace that Shabbat brings.  This light fosters shalom bayit (peace in the home), encouraging tranquility, unity, and love among family members.  

  • Spiritual Illumination:

The candles represent divine light entering the home and the world.  They serve as a reminder of HaShem's presence and the sanctity of Shabbat as a holy day.  


2.  Sanctifying Shabbat

  •    Holiness and Separation:

Lighting the candles marks the transition between the mundane weekday and the sanctity of Shabbat.  It sets the tone for the day as one of spiritual elevating, reflection, and rest.  

  • Echoing Creation:

In the Torah, HaShem created light on the first day (Genesis 1:3).  Lighting Shabbat candles mirrors this act of creation, acknowledging HaShem's sovereignty and our partnership in bringing light and order into the world.  


3.  Symbolism of the Flames

  • Dual Flames:  Traditionally two candles are lit to represent the dual commandments of Shabbat:
  • Zachor ("remember") - remembering the holiness of Shabbat, and keeping it special
  • Shamor ("observe") - observing Shabbat through rest and refraining from work.  
  • Soul and Body Connection: In Jewish thought, the flame is often a metaphor for the human soul (Ner HaShem Nishmat Adam- "The soul of a person is the lamp of G-d," Proverbs 20:27).  The flickering flame reminds us of the divine spark within us and our spiritual aspirations.  

4.  Welcoming the Shechinah

  • Presence of HaShem:

Lighting the Shabbat candles is seen as inviting the Shechinah (the divine presence) into the home.  The warm glow of the candles signifies HaShem's closeness, creating a sacred space for rest, prayer, and family connction.  


5.  Personal Prayer and Introspection

  • A Moment for Blessings

The moments after lighting the candles are considered especially auspicious for personal prayer.  Many women (or those lighting the candles) use this time to silently pray for their family, health, shalom, and other heartfelt wishes.  The quiet and stillness around the candles make it a sacred time for reflection.  


6.  A Symbol of Jewish Continuity

  • Connecting to Tradition

The ritual of lighting the Shabbat candles has been performed for thousands of years, linking individuals and families to generations past.  It serves as a reminder of the enduring beauty and resilience of Jewish tradition.  

  • Passing down the Light

The act of lighting candles is often seen as a way to pass down Jewish values and spirituality to future generations, symbolizing the eternal flame of Jewish faith and identity.  


7.  Elevation of the Mundane

  • Transforming the Ordinary

Lighting the candles transforms an ordinary Friday evening into something sacred.  This act reminds us of the Jewish value of finding holiness in the everyday, infusing even small actions with spiritual meaning.  


In Summary


The lighting of the Shabbat candles is more than a ritual - it is a profound spiritual act that brings light, shalom, and holiness into the home.  It symbolizes the sanctity of Shabbat, the presence of HaShem, and the unity of body and soul.  It invites reflection, connection, and the deepening of Jewish identity, creating a peaceful and sacred space to honor the divine and  cherish family bonds.